Dear Tricky,
If you go to a bar and announce that you're looking for a quick lay with no strings attached I think you'll be pleased with both the response and the lack of mutual guilt after.
I urge you to try this out and let me know how you go.
Kind regards,
Nick
Translation:
Hi, everybody!
Hi, Dr Nick!
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Anyway, I agree completely. Not every male has been emotionally broken, and if you change where you're looking, and the sorts of guys you're hanging out with, I think you'll find quite a few willing to just fuck and/or just fuck and date occasionally, with no real strings attached.
And there's nothing the fuck wrong with that.