he's coming over tonight and i'm going to have "the talk". hold me, i'm ascared.
i haven't really done that talk unless it's brought to me. if i get along really well with a guy i'm physically attracted to, and i feel a spark, i get with the guy, and (in my little experience) the monogamous relationship develops pretty easily from there without a serious conversation at the start about how "we are now entering into a cheat-free relationship zone". i never date around in the beginning of something with someone because i'm not a slut and can't imagine actively fucking more than one man at a time (dating-wise, not the gangbang-wise; that's a different story, of course). men typically
are sluts, or at least want to be, but sex is "just sex" for most of them, and in the very beginning of a budding relationshit, if we haven't already sat down to establish fidelity outlines of the friendship/relationship, then i'm sure it's pretty standard for guys to continue to fuck around a little or even a lot (or think about it), unless they're so into you they have eyes for absolutely nobody else, (which i'm guessing is rare, at least at the start). which is why, if that's gonna bother you, i guess instigating the talk is necessary. lucky for me, i happen to only be attracted to the
faithful types with big dicks.