This isn't hip forums. Your angst about moderation and such is very much meaningless to us.
So take that into consideration, and speak the damn language when you step into our territory.
And please, try to interact with us on a level that's not how we can screw your old buddy over.
Actually, I'd say that the lack of moderation is pretty much what defines us. It's how it's always been at A-S/L-G.
In fact, thinking about it, the complaints that we were "bitching" at the n00bs have to do with this. We have some sorta semi-unspoken, informal etiquette around here. But it's pretty much exclusively enforced by the crowd in general - you'll very rarely see a mod do more than combine the occasional thread, take down someone's personal information, or take down kiddie porn. The latter two almost never happen, since those are our only actual rules.
So to summarize: don't post anyone's personal info, don't post kiddie porn, but otherwise post what you want. Just know that if you step "out of line" everyone will let you know.