You can be married and still be alone, in the sense in which I meant it.

Indeed.

I agree as well ...

I'm off to shower now ...

I don't see the point.. talking to them is (almost) always good.. but what's a relationship without physical contact? blah.

Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh what the hell would you know about it?

No physical contact is torture.  I think that people can make it work long distance though if they are of a certain age.  My dad has been with the same woman for twelve years, but they weren't physically together for the first five.  They would go see each other a couple of times a month but nothing more, now they live together.

It's easily the hardest part. Regular contact - from simple sharing of space/hand-holding to sex - is one of the big indicators to my brain that I'm in a relationship. Without it, I sometimes feel more alone than I do when I'm single. At least then, I know why I'm so starved for affection.

It's easily the hardest part. Regular contact - from simple sharing of space/hand-holding to sex - is one of the big indicators to my brain that I'm in a relationship. Without it, I sometimes feel more alone than I do when I'm single. At least then, I know why I'm so starved for affection.

I'm the same way lucky.  Back a zillion years ago when I was married, he was in the navy, and the first few days of him being gone were the worst. He was/is an asshole but we were big on the physical (non-sexual) touching, and not having him around felt like part of me missing. Just like having sex and bam its gone, the big lump from missing it to not missing it is long and hard. heh. unintended sexual innuendos are the best.

I have no time to have sex or physical contact with men.  It's depressing, but what can I do about it? Nothing.

You could take matters into your own hands and film it and upload it.

If you're telling us you work night shift and can't get some quality dick to come take care of you any time of day, with that bod, I call bullshit.

I'll take one for the team (?).

If you're telling us you work night shift and can't get some quality dick to come take care of you any time of day, with that bod, I call bullshit.

Word. I live with my woman and rarely get any.

OKAY.  I can get dick whenever I want, but quality isn't always guaranteed.

It's all in the qualifier.

my ex (husband) used to "joke" that "he fucks other women, but he makes loooove" to me. He thought it was hilarious. Makes me want to stab him now... and myself for being a dumbass for stickin around for so many years and so many times he fucked around. 3, 4, 5? I lost track. He's karmas bitch now. 

But the asshole was right, emotionally speaking there is a difference between fucking and making love (which makes me nauseous saying today) there's actually more satisfaction when there's actual feelings involved, not just unfunfunf *nut* *get out*

No, I prefer the latter ...

there's actually more satisfaction when there's actual feelings involved

You're talking about bareback right?

Heh, there's that too ...

...emotionally speaking there is a difference between fucking and making love ... there's actually more satisfaction when there's actual feelings involved, not just unfunfunf ehnnn ehnnn ehnnn *nut* *get out*

cue the turtle fucking the tennis shoe

hooray!

I think I look rather handsome in that photo.

i never told anyone, but that's your real, photographed beard hair.

Hah!

I have no time to have sex or physical contact with men.  It's depressing, but what can I do about it? Nothing.

Buy a cat?

I hate cats.  I loathe going into someone's house and it smelling like a litter box.  I want to vomit.  I can't date anyone because I don't think there is anyone worth dating.  My standards are too high.  Bank account/job/car/big dick

Hmmm

Hmmmm ...
I qualify, however, I'm not moving; sorry ...
Apparently I never leave Jax ...

that's what everybody says

Bank account/job/car/big dick

Wow. I'm glad to go through life unfettered by any of those things!