You guys realize that the vast majority of people with HPV will never know or show any sign of having it, right? Statistically, you both probably have had or have some strain of it, despite the fact that it's never and may never "show up", as it were. Hence why I say I probably have it, not that I do. I do not, and have never had genital (or any other) warts. And I'm no giant man-ho either. But I've been around enough to have narrowed my odds of never having encountered it down to not much.