One question - is he allowed to pick the other girl and fuck her too, when you're not around?
nope.
after expressing my interest in getting my face wet he was the one who suggested i find myself a girlfriend, seeing as how it's one of those things he just can't do for me. if he wants to go and blow some other dude i might be alright with it but i'm not okay with him screwing another woman.
You chicks are screwy, I've had a couple of you tell me "Well, yeah we can fuck another girl together but you can't fuck her though." So basically I get to fuck you? Again? While you get the fun and excitement of fucking someone else?
What the fuck is that?
Anyway, if your husband wants to suck dick and you really think you wouldn't have a problem with that then more power to the both of you. Otherwise, it's not his fault he likes pussy. If you're getting strange he gets to get strange.