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General Category => Sex/Gossip => Topic started by: tricky on June 03, 2012, 11:34:12 AM
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and not telling us any stories, i will tell mine!
i have a date lined up with a dude from okc for next Sunday. he seems really cool and nice, but a little too eager to get in my pants. it's almost borderline creepy. he's been smothering me with compliments so i'm kind of into it but also creeped out. turned on AND creeped out? i don't even know how to process that.
i'm not even sure if i find his attractive. he looks cute in some of his pictures but not others.
i guess i'll see how it goes? either way i will tell you all the details of the date since bagman isn't up to par lately.
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post a pic of him?
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nah. i'm not going to stoop THAT low.
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Oh snap, I'm looking forward to hearing about this. Especially the sexual details if there are any, in detail.
Since you won't post a picture, I will. I just got a message from this chick from okc today. http://www.okcupid.com/profile/tahdaaah (http://www.okcupid.com/profile/tahdaaah)
I haven't decided if I'm going to reply yet - it looks like she had a kid, and I'm not really into that. On the other hand she looks fun. Sigh. I am just not trying really at all. I'm glad to see you are tricky. I don't know what's wrong with me.
I've turned into a hermit over the past 6 months.
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She doesn't even have a body type. I can't date a woman without a body type.
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But can you handle this:
Smokes - Sometimes/Drinks - Very often
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Uh, no.
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I was asking Kyle, actually ...
But, good intervention ...
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i chatted with him online last night for a couple hours. he seems really really nice, almost a little too nice? like i'm just wondering WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU, there must be something wrong with you, because who is actually so seemingly nice and polite and well mannered and talented and hot?
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<cough>psycho-cannibal (http://www.abc15.com/dpp/news/national/cannibalism-is-rare-but-not-in-recent-news-weeks)-"OkCupid killer", earning your trust</cough>
When he coyly invites you to follow him down to the basement dungeon for a "tour", just be ready to slash him.
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that sounds kind of hot, other than the dying part.
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The answer to your question, dearest tricky, is everyone; at first!
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EXACTLY! that's why i'd like to find out what IS wrong with him. haha
i've resolved to tell people that i have depression before they get in too deep with me. because some people can't handle that.
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before they get in too deep with me
Like, when it's just the tip?
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Ask Lucas, Kyle ...
Meanwhile, tricky, if you are LOOKING (too hard) you will FIND ...
... even if they aren't really there!
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agreed
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^5
It's simple; if you go in with a failing attitude, you feel you have nothing to lose and have ALREADY FAILED!
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Wow, and I thought I was jaded.
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^5
It's simple; if you go in with a failing attitude, you feel you have nothing to lose and have ALREADY FAILED!
Yoda?
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No; common sense ...
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Ask Lucas, Kyle ...
Meanwhile, tricky, if you are LOOKING (too hard) you will FIND ...
... even if they aren't really there!
huh? that sounds unhealthy.
^5
It's simple; if you go in with a failing attitude, you feel you have nothing to lose and have ALREADY FAILED!
i thought that having no expectations from anyone was the way to go, b/c then you can never be disappointed. at least that is what i try to live by.
right now i'm not trying to find a new boyfriend or anything, just cool people to hang out with and maybe do sexy things with once in a while.
i am also trying to get used to the idea that if i am alone, it is ok and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. constantly feeling like you need to be with someone in order to be happy is not good. i'm not saying that is how i feel, but that's sort of what is beaten into our brain by society.
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It is?
... and it being unhealthy was my point
... additionally, having NO expectation is unhealthy, having A LITTLE BIT is
... if you have NONE, then why be there in the first place?
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The free food of course.
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It is?
yes. at least, that's been my experience as a woman.
It is?
... and it being unhealthy was my point
... additionally, having NO expectation is unhealthy, having A LITTLE BIT is
... if you have NONE, then why be there in the first place?
good point i suppose. i expect that people i care about aren't going to be a dick to me.
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I wouldn't even mention this in the way I did if I didn't care about you as well ...
Believe it or not, I'm trying to help you, Brook ...
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(http://swenglishrantings.com/swenglishrantings/Bilder/FunnyPics/EmoFag.jpg)
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Need I refer you to the thread called "Experiment" where you hung on my EVERY WORD of the advice I "unnaturally Thrash" gave to you?
(That you ignored and lost the chick)
I luv ya, baby; don't make me have to hurt you unnecessarily ...
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constantly feeling like you need to be with someone in order to be happy is not good. i'm not saying that is how i feel, but that's sort of what is beaten into our brain by society.
This is true.
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It is?
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I wouldn't even mention this in the way I did if I didn't care about you as well ...
Believe it or not, I'm trying to help you, Brook ...
wait, huh? what are you trying to help me with? i wasn't referring to you when i said that (the part about people not being dicks). :P
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(http://www.gwarlingo.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/Banksy-Street-Sign-550x475.jpg)
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Heh. Yup.
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i have no idea. what that means.
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he was sick last sunday, so we rescheduled for tonight. we took a long walk around Manhattan. he was really nice and interesting, good conversationalist, AND easy on the eyes. nothing too crazy to report, other than i had a nice time and would like to hang out with him again.
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(http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-5T6ppWy5p1g/TbxSpZrpxOI/AAAAAAAAVCE/eB6l-pJZjjo/s1600/cat%2Bpeeking%2Bfrom%2Bhole.jpg)
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I'm glad to hear that, and that you just chilled and enjoyed yourself ...
... see, low(ered 1st) expectations make for a good time, whereas high or none don't
... good for you, dear; and this one's local (I'm hoping)!
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he was sick last sunday, so we rescheduled for tonight. we took a long walk around Manhattan. he was really nice and interesting, good conversationalist, AND easy on the eyes. nothing too crazy to report, other than i had a nice time and would like to hang out with him again.
Right on. That's a good start. And I'd be inclined to believe that there are perfectly nice, normal, desirable people on internet dating sites, but that may be because I consider myself to be one of them. I don't use dating sites, but I totally would if any of them worked for where I live. But I definitely believe that for some people, being able to get to know a person a little bit before meeting in person can be really helpful.
Cue various jokes. Shut up.
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Yeah.
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Nope, I'm not pulling the trigger ...
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Updates?
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WHAT?
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Huh?
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Brook, time to change the name of this thread. Haha.
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Nah; only if you didn't have your own thread ...
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we went out again this past Friday. we met at a bar and hung out there drinking and talking for about 5 hours, which was really cool. we talked about a lot of different topics. after that, he walked me to where I needed to go to get home. when we got to the subway, i was like, ok, this dude is attracted to me, is he going to ask to kiss me or what? we talked about when we'd go out again, and kind of awkwardly stood there looking at each other. then we hugged. after that I figured out he wasn't going to ask me, so I said "I'd like to kiss you!" and he said he'd like that too. so we kissed. he's a good kisser, would definitely like to do more of that with him. then we said good night and went our separate ways.
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You are a super hero Brook, leading us onwards .
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Aww, how cute! I'm glad you helped him out; gave him the green light. Was this your 2nd time going out with him?
I hugged my date goodbye last night and then followed up with a text: "Hey, I had a great time with you, and I'm looking forward to seeing you again" to her know I had fun, if she couldn't already tell. She wrote me me "me too! you're so sweet."
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Wow; our two kiddies are growing up and dating ...
.... good for you two!
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yep, 2nd time.
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Do you have a 3rd lined up? Also, do you talk on the phone with the dude or just text? I'll actually call her to finalize the date plans for next weekend but I usually hate talking on the phone. I'd rather talk in person.
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he asked me if i'd like to go to a museum, but the museum we were discussing going to closes at 6 ever day. so we couldn't go during the week and it would have to be Saturday or Sunday. we didn't set up a date to go yet. I'm going to be out of town from 6/29 through 7/8 so the next time i'd have a free Saturday would be 7/14, which is kind of a while from now! i was thinking about asking him if he wanted to do something on Thursday before i leave, but i'm like OMG IS THAT TOO SOON. even though our previous two dates were only a week apart. dating is a total pain in the ass because you even have to think about this kind of shit.
we text or email. i don't talk on the phone with hardly anyone! mostly just family.
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Do it! I would say if you have a great date on Thursday, then you'll both have two weeks to think about how much fun you had, or how awesome it's going to be to continue making out, kissing, whatever the next time you see each other.
Not seeing each other for three weeks may be a little long... what if interest wanes? Especially since it's so early on -- only two dates in.
Haha, it shouldn't be as difficult as it was when we were younger. The "games" are old and tired - it's best to be up front, and don't worry about waiting this amount of time to do this, or that amount of time for him to do this, etc. I'm learning that myself.
Anyway, I say go for it - ask him out. Does he know you're going out of town? If so, I wonder why he hasn't stepped up himself to try and see you before you go...
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good points, Kyle, and i was thinking pretty much the same thing you said.
i did tell him that i was going out of town. i am not sure why he didn't try to figure out a date himself, but he did make it very clear that he wants to see me again. maybe when i told him i was going to be gone for a little while it didn't really register. who knows.
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This is not a post, I have no interest in this so move along.
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Thanks for letting us know ...
.... congrats on the add to your post count
... anyway, I also agree with Kyle; FWIW
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so i asked him if he wants to do something before i leave and he said yes. yay!
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That's great news ...
I can't wait to hear about it ...
... and, then, absence, and I won't quote the cliche' here
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Good for you Brooke. I can't stand dating, I just tell a guy he is mine and that is that.
BTW: I want this to just wear under my clothes at all times: http://www.etsy.com/listing/78277970/latex-and-ring-harness?ref=sr_gallery_18&ga_includes%5B%5D=tags&ga_search_query=bondage+harness&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery (http://www.etsy.com/listing/78277970/latex-and-ring-harness?ref=sr_gallery_18&ga_includes%5B%5D=tags&ga_search_query=bondage+harness&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery)
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Nice ...
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Score! Nice job Brook. Looking forward to hearing how it goes.
Sasha, please post photos.
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I most certainly will not post photos. I am just going to wear it under my clothes at work when the weather turns cold again but I am going to ask the chick who made it if she can make me one that is smaller. I feel like I want to look more and more corporate but be more and more fucked up sexually, like Patrick Bateman.
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You should just wear it over your clothes (outside of work, that is).
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She hates it when you put an e on the end.
Not stalker today just prosaically observant.
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So tomorrow's the big night huh? Two weeks of not seeing each other after tomorrow... it better be memorable.
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dammit! Murphy's Law got me tonight and we ended up not being able to hang out. the story is too long to even explain (i don't feel like typing it all out). anyhow, we are planning to go out when i get back, and to keep in touch while i'm on vacation.
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Son of a motherfucker! I was actually looking forward to reading about your date.
Ironically, it looks like my date Saturday may not happen as planned either, but I'm going to try to reschedule for Sunday.
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Hmmmmm ....
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Maybe dating now is different, but when I seeking out dates in my youth, it was straightforward.
There were no catalogs to sift through. Unless you count video dating. That just screamed creepy at the time.
We approached or had intermediaries get attention for us. Then, we talked, awkward as it may be.
I picked up a woman at a Waffle House, once. I was working there, she was a customer. I liked her Ramones shirt. I asked her if she knew who they were, she told me to suck a dick. We kept talking and we decided to go to a concert that night. I picked her up, went to the show, brought her home, screwed like mad, and kept that paterrn for many months.
All from just talking to a stranger.
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I never really "dated"; I either used you for sex or I just hung out with you and didn't care ...
... then, there were girlfriends, but I won't get into that
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So tricky, have you touched his dicky?
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It's tricky to rock a cock
To rock a cock
When you're running amok
It's tricky
It's tricky
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Haha I like your style.
Run D.M.C. is actually playing here in Austin this fall!
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nope! so during my vacation, we texted & emailed a bunch. i saw him this past thursday. we were supposed to go out to eat but ended up just going to a bar instead. and again we sat and talked and drank for a long time, like 5 or 6 hours. then i walked him to his subway stop and we had a super hot makeout session... it was borderline inappropriate for public consumption but it was 3:30am in NYC and i'm sure people have seen worse.
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I'm sure I've seen worse at 3:30 pm!
And just what are you doing out after 12:00 young lady?
LOL
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I don't get it. Lots of people are out after midday.
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g e e z
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i walked him to his subway stop and we had a super hot makeout session...
I read that as "subway shop" at first. My first thought was - wow, the guy works at a Subway? Second - that seems so unromantic to have a makeout session inside a Subway shop.
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Not if you're name's "Penny" ...
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Do I REALLY have to tell you the fun you can have with THIS ONE (http://1upem.com/kaytee-austin-texas/)?
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maybe if she cut her hair really short and dyed it. blondes are so not my thing, and i like short hair.
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also i'm going to assume that you posted that in the wrong thread since i don't live in TX.
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maybe if she cut her hair really short and dyed it. blondes are so not my thing, and i like short hair.
Oh that's why you said I had good taste when I posted that picture of Natalie Raitano and claimed her as a major cutie so long ago.
(http://rexee.vo.llnwd.net/d1/site_images/cards/214/21214_landscape_22502_320x240.jpg)
You little lesbo! Eh, good on you.
Guess I'm just attracted to you guys. LOL
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I think you may have misinterpreted the last couple of posts.
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um, anyways, this guy is super awesome and we have a ton in common! i invited him to a party i'm going to on Sunday so hopefully he can make it.
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MOAR! That was the lamest read I've had all night.
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what else can i say? we have been texting and chatting a bunch. he's a fucking weirdo just like me.
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And the shorter your replies get, the more you probably like this guy. So rock on! Hope it all works out.
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he's a fucking weirdo just like me.
See that's interesting!
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also i'm going to assume that you posted that in the wrong thread since i don't live in TX.
Yeah, that was for baggie; sorry for any confusion ...
he's a fucking weirdo just like me.
See that's interesting!
Yeah; see?
THAT is what we want updates on ...
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I think you may have misinterpreted the last couple of posts.
Ah well, wouldn't be the first time. But then ... maybe not!
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so he was supposed to get to the party on Sunday at 6pm. but instead i got a text from him at 6pm saying that he had to work and couldn't come, but that he'd really wanted to go, and wanted to go with me to the next party that my friends & i have. blah blah blah i told him that i was going to karaoke with a bunch of friends on Thursday and he can come if he wanted. he said he would. $5 says he doesn't show up.
also i went out with a different guy from okc tonight. he looked hot in his photos, but he wasn't good looking in person. he didn't order anything at dinner and he was annoying.
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http://efukt.com/21005_How_Is_This_Even_Possible?.html (http://efukt.com/21005_How_Is_This_Even_Possible?.html)
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/me prays it's a prolapse *
PLEASE be a prolapse!
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holy shitting gummy worms!
he texted me last night and told me he has strep throat and couldn't come tonight. i responded and asked if he didn't want to see me but was afraid to say so, and he responded and said he does want to see me and that he thinks about me a lot and has a hard time leaving when he does see me. so either he actually does want to see me but has a horrible schedule, or he's a huge liar.
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Yummy worms!
Well that sucks you weren't able to go out, but it's good he says he wants to see you. See, a girl can get away with asking "do you still want to see me". If a guy asks that it SCREAMS no confidence, low self-esteem, I-have-a-vagina-in-my-pants. We have to remain cool, calm, collected, let nothing bother us, and keep carrying on. Which I have been doing with regards to my OKC girl, despite her being busy and very hard to see. (I'll update my thread.)
Unless he's a real pussy and can't break the news to you honestly, he's being honest.
You've seen each other 3 times? or more? I'd be afraid to say things like "I have a hard time leaving" and "I'm thinking about you a lot" so soon. I have said "I'd like to see you" and "I like your sense of humor" and things like that but nothing feelings-related yet.
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Well, on the site, I'm glad it was ALMOST a prolapse ...
That's an ass I'd NOT fuck; it's too loose and loses the point of ass fucking ...
(on MY end; pun intended)
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See, a girl can get away with asking "do you still want to see me". If a guy asks that it SCREAMS no confidence, low self-esteem, I-have-a-vagina-in-my-pants.
in some situations i think it's ok to ask wht i asked regardless of gender. i think in the situation i'm in, it's pretty reasonable to ask that.
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I'd say so as well ...
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yes
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so that guy totally sucks and we definitely aren't going on anymore dates. :( too bad because i actually liked him a lot.
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Ok, so ...
... what happened?
... he won't let you anally rape him with your broomstick?
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so that girl totally sucks and we definitely aren't going on anymore dates. :( too bad because i actually liked her a lot.
Me too.
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Soap stars, oh shit the soap is burning my eyes.
:P
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I guess we'll just have to wait and see; no?