I have a feeling it's time to get back on OKC and try again with somebody else. I'm being flaked out on.

Alright, so here's the deal. We seemed to have a great first date, setup a second date for this weekend at the close of the first date (not a night or time but just what we'd do - bowling). Ya know, texting back and forth all week, then on Thursday I sent her a text to finalize the details. I suggested I could pick her up, (we met for the first date), grab some Thai food for dinner and then head out for bowling. She said she "couldn't say yes yet" because she had some clients coming in late on Saturday and she wasn't sure what time she would be leaving. (She works until 5pm Saturday). So I suggested we go on Sunday when all the seniors play, and all she said was "yes! senior Sunday". Didn't communicate at all on Friday.

This morning I sent her a text about seeing Nada Surf last night and she replied "that's awesome! lucky" She sent me some texts that her work was robbed today - her co-workers phones and wallets were stolen, but she hides her purse at work so they didn't find hers. But she said she feels violated, which I told her I understand. My CDs (100 of them I had from my first CD in 1996 until recently were stolen out of my car a couple of years ago). Texted back and forth a bit about that, then at about 7:30pm I was like "do you want hang out tonight? might help take your mind off what happened and have some fun bowling!"

No response at all. Nada. But not Nada Surf.

So, obviously tomorrow I'll try again - maybe she was stressed out, ended up having to talk to cops, who knows, but you know, it's kind of nice to at least get a response saying tonight won't be a good night.

Give me some ideas on how to text her tomorrow.

I've got something like "buenos dias! are you interested in grubbing down on some Thai food and joining the senior bowling league tonight? I'd like to see you again"

If she doesn't respond to the text tomorrow, I get it yo.

Awe.. little baggy is all growed up and shit.

 :'(

Awe.. little baggy is all growed up and shit.

 :'(

Don't get all outlandish on us now. That's a bit of a stretch.

Or it could something as simple as her phone died and she didn't notice.

... or, to quote her, "She feels violated"
... maybe "do you want hang out tonight? might help take your mind off what happened and have some fun bowling!" wasn't the right way to go
... trust me; you didn't help

She's a "hook up", not a date for a "girlfriend"; drain your balls and move on ...

Hahah yes, I know. Back to the drawing board again. Just like that I can screw something up (and I always do!)

Sigh. At least I have some time for the eczema to continue getting better. I had a random flare up on the inside of my elbows (crease of my arms) which hadn't been bad yet until today.

Back to OKC I go...

Good way of looking at it; it least it's not Costa Rica all over again ...

Oh God. Thanks for reminding me.

In other news, THE DATE IS STILL ON!!!!! Just woke up to a barrage of texts she sent me overnight. She left her phone in her friends car and said she wanted to go bowling yesterday, so wants to go this week.

 

Ok(cupid); good to hear ...
Let's see how round two goes ...

Wait, you're not just gonna quote yourself again?

Mark your calendars: thursday the 5th, 7pm.

I feel like I'm in a dream. How is this happening? This seemingly wonderful girl is interested in me, and is continuing to talk to me, telling me she's sorry she didn't get back to me over the weekend, etc. I'm amazed. This is only going to be the second date, but I've somehow kept her interested since I first contacted her on the 17th. What's hilarious is while we were talking on the first date she said the only people she's met or talked to online were either "creepy" or "boring." Apparently I'm neither! The other amazing thing is I don't really feel nervous per se, I feel like she already enjoys my company so there's no nerves. Maybe I'm really growing up.

Snuffles!

Dammit Thrash! That's what I get for not striking when the iron was hot...

I know ...

What's hilarious is while we were talking on the first date she said the only people she's met or talked to online were either "creepy" or "boring." Apparently I'm neither!

... even after ...... nevermind .... enjoy ...

I threw the line out there, seeing who'd bite first. Somehow I knew it'd be you.

Anyway, she and I have both told each other we're excited about Thursday. Boy oh boy.

It's funny.  I don't tell about my first and second dates, but maybe I should because this stuff is so much more interesting than hearing about my awesome sex life.

I will tell you guys about the second date I had with the guy I am currently dating after we started dating again (we used to see each other briefly, but I was dating the younger guy so I didn't purse the current guy).  He invited me to go see a movie, (we hadn't had sex yet and he wanted to "get to know me" first... whatever).  We met at the Highball (a bar) and the showing for the movie that we were going to see was sold out so we decided to burn two hours at the bar until the next showing.  Big fucking mistake.  I have this tendency to make guys extremely nervous, with that being said, he proceeded to pound four bourbon on the rocks.  He is 6'5", 225? pounds, but he got drunk.  I think he was drunk because he finally told me that he had had four beers before seeing me due to nervousness.  SO he was being kind of loud and I was hesitant to go to the movie.  We get to the movie and he orders a beer and then fucking talks through the whole movie like a nigger would.  It was so embarrassing!  At one point I turned to him and said that if he said one more word we would go.  He shut up so we stayed.  After the movie I was livid.  I didn't want to talk to him or know him.   He walked me to my car and was like "bleh bleh that waiter was a dick bleh bleh movie bleh."  I didn't care.  I said "look take your hand off of my door I am leaving."  He tried to make me stay so I decided to just turn on my car and run him over in order to drive away, which I totally did.  I didn't want to speak to him again.  He texted me a whole bunch after that and called me.  After a long talk I decided to give him another chance under the pretense that if he ever acted a fool again I would never see him again.  He has been good so far.  He took me to meet his parents today so I guess that's a good and strange sign?

We get to the movie and he orders a beer and then fucking talks through the whole movie like a nigger would.

Racism is hilarious! I laughed my ass off.

The guy sounds like a big tool! Well, I guess that IS all he is to you... just a big dick. Met his parents? How long have you been dating?

A month?  I don't get it.

He was bitching that I wasn't on the pill and I said "go get a vasectomy."  He said "well you want children so I can't do that."  I replied "I wouldn't mind."

Hahahahahaha!

Offer to perform one.

Today he invited me to a bbq at a neighbors house.  I don't really like social gatherings, especially with strangers, but I reluctantly said I would go.  I follow him there and realize it is a family bbq!  The parents I met of his last night were his dad and step mom, but today he made me meet his mom.  I started to have a panic attack.  I decided to just slip out the back door and get the fuck out of there.  He said I totally embarrassed him and I said that he was being ridiculous by making me meet his family so soon. 

Jesus Christ!  I couldn't believe it.  When he came over around 9 this evening I told him he would never meet my parents unless a screaming baby had come out of my vagina.  He said "so never?" and I said "yea, probably never."  We then proceeded to have three hours of amazing sex.  He is just as nuts as I am but in a whole new way that is blowing my mind. 

I have no idea what my life has in store for me. 

Sounds like a) he needs to better understand the way you work and b) you're kind of enjoying this, which is cool...?

Haha wow.

Yeah; odd you gave in to sex after that...
... wait; nevermind

It's not odd.  I need a real doll... the man version.

I could pretend to be one?

Real dolls don't usually wander around supermarkets with their wang out, though. I'm not sure how convincing you could be.

Hey I could remain still with a full erection and let her pose me as she wants until she was through with me. What else is needed?

Plus I had shorts on during the supermarket episode you mentioned and as I've said before that woman had to go down on her knees pretending to look at shit on the bottom shelf to get a good look. (which she did several times)  I refuse to feel guilty (or creepy) about allowing her.

Unless you look like http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m6k1cn5x8G1qe6vsbo1_500.jpg I think I will pursue a real doll made of fantastical proportions.