If someone has proven themselves to be "untrustworthy"

how do you deal with it/them?

are they forever a filthy lying douche bag or is there a chance for redemption?

Hang on a min, I'll just go and find a reply you liked on the RT version.

why don't you go back and find an rt version of me telling you suck a cock....

ooh wait

you dont need to! there's already a LG version of that;)

http://loaded-gun.com/index.php?topic=37.1200

You have no idea that I like you do you ?

i've already planned the wedding....invitations go out tomorrow;)

Not that kind of "like".

And the link was wrong.

fixed http://loaded-gun.com/index.php?topic=37.msg18599#msg18599

sooo....

we're not getting married then?!

sooo....

we're not getting married then?!

Just kidnap him.



I give people a second chance....but I'm more cautious about believing what they say.

WTF bitch??!  I thought WE we're gonna get married!  What a slut.  Well, I guess we can spitroast you.

WTF bitch??!  I thought WE we're gonna get married!  What a slut.  Well, I guess we can spitroast you.

we are!!

he was my back up plan.....


you're only allowed to call me slut when you're donkey punching me.

how does one do that on skype ?

I can deal with that.

TH, I guess that leaves just you and me. I'm gonna make you the happiest fat girl in Georgia...

sooo....

we're not getting married then?!

Just kidnap him.



I give people a second chance....but I'm more cautious about believing what they say.

I give some second chances, a lot of it depends on the severity of the violation.....

Not to be too on-topic, but I'd say that you can probably give someone another shot, but there's always gonna be that thing at the back of your mind that stops you from ever fully trusting them again.

Online - one chance

Offline - Can't answer that.

Not to be too on-topic, but I'd say that you can probably give someone another shot, but there's always gonna be that thing at the back of your mind that stops you from ever fully trusting them again.

I agree with this....

taking it one step further, if the trust violator was someone you were in a relationship with- could you carry on in a relationship with them?

would you ever be able to have a happy and trusting relationship again?!

As was said, depends how big the betrayal of trust.

As was said, depends how big the betrayal of trust.

And what kind of relationship it is and what's at stake, etc.

If someone has proven themselves to be "untrustworthy"

how do you deal with it/them?

are they forever a filthy lying douche bag or is there a chance for redemption?

I'm very very hesitant to trust anyone again aftet they have lied once. I hardly ever give people the benefit of the doubt. I've already been in a situation where I 110% trusted someone, but it turns out that they lied to me over and over.

Computer : BIOS - OS - Programs

My trust is a program. When a person lies to me they are forcing a patch on my trust.exe. Now being human, my BIOS can be affected by a corrupt patch, but thats never happened, at most must trust.exe locks up.

I tell people to fuck off after lying to me becuase they are fucking with my brain, more than the content of the lie.

(work in progress, train of thought not complete.)

how does one do that on skype ?

they sell accessories, like webcams.

when you break the trust, the relationship is over. You'll be searching for a new partner now, thanks

If someone has proven themselves to be "untrustworthy"

how do you deal with it/them?

I simply don't trust them anymore in THAT ASPECT of life.

If someone says they'll save a bottle of tequila for sharing with others, and they don't, then I'll still trust them to pick me up at the airport the next time I come to visit.
If someone says it'll be okay for an American to walk around in Hiroshima, and it isn't, then I'll still trust them to order my beers for me.

Just some examples. 

taking it one step further, if the trust violator was someone you were in a relationship with- could you carry on in a relationship with them?

would you ever be able to have a happy and trusting relationship again?!

If they lied about some aspect of the relationship (love, sex, money, time, interests), then that bridge is burnt.  It doesn't mean all of the bridges burn, though.

If someone says they're just going to visit a friend, and they end up making out with the dude all afternoon, then I'll still trust them to show up to a party that they invited me to where I don't know anyone.

So, in this case:  if sex is important to the relationship, then it either needs to change form or dissolve.

how does one do that on skype ?

they sell accessories, like webcams.

I just pic'd something that looks like a pez despenser.

Hang on a min, I'll just go and find a reply you liked on the RT version.

I bet if we went there and started talking about fags and gangbangs and things no one understands, we'd get banned SO DAMN FAST.

Hang on a min, I'll just go and find a reply you liked on the RT version.

I bet if we went there and started talking about fags and gangbangs and things no one understands, we'd get banned SO DAMN FAST.

Yep, but it seems to be an okay place, I just cant get my humor across within the rules. I does seem to move slow though.

have you tried using smileys?

NO !