If you are married and you and your significant other don't have sex anymore do you guys fuck other women on the side?

Absolutely.

You aren't married, so your opinion is invalid.

*sigh*

I'm not even gonna comment on MY deal ...

Oh, and, that said; I give it a month, max ....

I give everything I get into now a month max.  Especially since when my ex finds out who I am hooking up with he texts them all my embarassing private history.

In late November, post-Thanksgiving, my craigslist sweetie is going to stay over at my place for a week. I didn't invite her... she asked because she's got to move out of her current living situation Nov. 26, and won't be able to move into her new place until Dec.

This is going to be uhh, interesting. My solitary life... will no longer only be shared with two cats and two plants. But she knows this is only temporary.

She's sinking her tentacles into you Kyle.  Pretty soon she's going to have lay down the flowery bed skirt and the hello kitty bath mats (assuming they aren't already there).

You aren't married, so your opinion is invalid.

If you are married to someone and you are not willing to have sex with them on a regular or basis or at all by your own free choice, why SHOULD you care if they fuck someone else?  You weren't fucking them in the first place.

Craigslist sweetie?  Gross.  Don't let her move in for a week because it will end up being two years.

You aren't married, so your opinion is invalid.

If you are married to someone and you are not willing to have sex with them on a regular or basis or at all by your own free choice, why SHOULD you care if they fuck someone else?  You weren't fucking them in the first place.

This coming from the guy who was so butt hurt over his ex fucking other people when they were in an open relationship....

This coming from the guy who was so butt hurt over his ex fucking other people when they were in an open relationship....

I knew this was coming and I know how you would make your case on the topic before I even filled in any information about it so there's no point.

I'm not married or living together with a significant other, but you could just say marriage and a relationship are interchangeable for the sake of this discussion.

Assuming those two things 1) you are in relationship and 2) you are living together, and then assuming said person won't have sex with you, absolves you of looking for other avenues.

Assuming only one of those two things married but long-distance or living together but not yet married, I don't think you can just go traipsing around for ass and expect the other person not to care.

The other person isn't allowed to care if you are in an OPEN RELATIONSHIP.

Lawyers love anal.

Then they aren't with a person who excites them anymore ...
... this is a BAD thing

But what if no one excites them?
I don't think you can expect someone to stay as horny as they were when young when they're much older.


If I got married and years later stopped putting out I would expect my husband to stay faithful.

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If I got married and years later stopped putting out I would expect my husband to stay faithful.

Could he look at porn?

Pipe dreams of the young and inexperienced ...

I don't think you can expect someone to stay as horny as they were when young when they're much older.

If I can, she can.

Salem wore me out, so there was no sexy time, but there was future meeting up (and obvious sexy time) talk. with my new connection in the Northeast, me and hip are gonna be touching nips like no tomorrow. This chub's gonna keep her warm this winter.

If I got married and my wife stopped putting out, I wouldn't cheat - I'd flat out ask for a divorce.

Unless maybe if she took care of everything without complaining - cooking, cleaning, etc.  Or maybe if she had a ton of money and I didn't have to work at all.  But if she caused me any stress while denying me the best part of being in a relationship, I'd be out the door.

My exboyfriend would deny me sex and jerk off to porn instead.  He didn't have enough money to keep me as a full time girlfriend unfortunately and now has to accept the fact that I fuck other people and don't want to be with him except maybe once a week.  Also, he has been threatening to kill himself every few days and does about $800 worth of cocaine every week.  I don't really know what to do when someone is in "self destruct mode" so I have been giving him space.

Uhm, that's what you do ...

I tell people what I think; ONCE!
... then that's what I do

Yea, I know.  I'm a total failure.  I have to tell people what I think more than once.

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I don't think you can expect someone to stay as horny as they were when young when they're much older.

If I can, she can.

yup!

let's step back a sec and look at this from another side: what if our husband, with age, loses his erection, and let's assume for the sake of argument that viagra or other such things are not an option. what does our horny, middle aged wifey do then?

I don't think you can expect someone to stay as horny as they were when young when they're much older.

If I can, she can.

yup!

let's step back a sec and look at this from another side: what if our husband, with age, loses his erection, and let's assume for the sake of argument that viagra or other such things are not an option. what does our horny, middle aged wifey do then?

call me

I don't think you can expect someone to stay as horny as they were when young when they're much older.

If I can, she can.

yup!

let's step back a sec and look at this from another side: what if our husband, with age, loses his erection, and let's assume for the sake of argument that viagra or other such things are not an option. what does our horny, middle aged wifey do then?

call me, because by then I will own something from www.fuckingmachines.com

I don't think you can expect someone to stay as horny as they were when young when they're much older.

If I can, she can.

yup!

let's step back a sec and look at this from another side: what if our husband, with age, loses his erection, and let's assume for the sake of argument that viagra or other such things are not an option. what does our horny, middle aged wifey do then?

call me

^5

From my personal experience with boner pills they work really well.  I used to even have a day of the week called "boner sunday" which was dedicated to the use of boner pills.  I do not however have experience using them with an man over the age of 36 so I can't really say if they work on someone older than that.

Kemm says they work; he's 53 ...

Never tried them, never needed them.