Dave, there were things that we fought over and over about and couldn't understand each others point of views all the time, or even more than half the time. Unlike the bagman of lore, I will refrain from airing every detail and piece of dirty laundry here.
However, I will say one thing. The biggest thing is that she has many mental illnesses. That would normally be ok, I mean hell I am mentally ill in some cases. But she needs many years of therapy and to be on psychotropic medications. Most likely she has at least BPD, depression and severe anxiety. I love the girl to death and will always, but we both need to move forward. I can't worry about her doing something to harm herself or not caring about herself when she goes out with friends all the time, and she shouldn't have to worry about me worrying all the time. We were just "stuck" and couldn't go forward, until she learns to to love and take care of herself. Anyway, this is just the right thing for us to do. :'(
My boss and some ex-co workers are getting my ass drunk tomorrow night.
Time for Craigslist again? Haha. No, not this time. Okcupid.com.