So my girl REALLY likes rough sex.  I personally am not used to it, but it didn't take too long for me to really get into it and really like it.  She especially enjoyed me grabbing her by her hair and forcefully gagging her with my cock.  She also challenged me a lot to see if I'd go as far as she wanted, such as grinning ear to ear whenever I wasn't rough enough.  That resulted in me pretty much grabbing her and smacking her harder and harder until I smacked the grin off of her face, which I actually enjoyed way more than I had imagined (and she was quite pleased with her fast learning pupil).  I'm sure hip can give me some advice in this area, as I'm kind of a n00b to being sadistic (but it's really coming naturally). 

A lot of guys refuse to get really abusive.  The 10"er refuses to strangle me or slap me.

Oh, I thoroughly enjoyed the strangling and slapping.....is that bad?

He doesn`t need to strangle you when he can gag you.

A lot of guys refuse to get really abusive.  The 10"er refuses to strangle me or slap me.

I'll strangle and slap you but for the 10" we'll have to fuck three times...

 To twist a Machiavelli quote: "A woman, like Fortune, will always favor the man who is unafraid to treat her roughly."

I once got ditched by a girl in the states because I was too nice. She was in alcohol counseling.

I'd rather give you 4 orgasms than beat the shit out of you, meh

 A lot of girls would rather have both.

I don't get into it... an ex had a pain thing so I had plenty of opportunity to try

I can get into it to a point. I don't get off on hitting girls though. Even if they're asking for it.
Choking, restraining, biting, general rough play I can do. Anything where I can be kind of gentle while accomplishing violent acts without feeling like an idiot is fine. I actually don't mind being hurt a little bit myself.

But hitting and hair-pulling just feels weird. I feel it's really silly if I do it gently, and I'm not interested in doing it hard.

Well what do you mean by "hitting"?  I would slap, but definitely not do anything like punching.  But for the most part I'll be as rough as someone wants and no rougher. 

I mean that's sort of my point. I don't like either.
Actually beating a chick is uncool even if she gets off on it.
Slapping a chick seems to me completely silly. I know it's common in pornos, but it just feels like a ridiculous and effeminate sort of thing to do.
I'm not arguing against it really, though. I know all kinds of guys feel like a real man doing it but not me. Both physically striking and hair-pulling are things I'm not interested in.

Im down for Lip Trills if you are

Slapping a chick seems to me completely silly. I know it's common in pornos, but it just feels like a ridiculous and effeminate sort of thing to do.
I'm not arguing against it really, though. I know all kinds of guys feel like a real man doing it but not me. Both physically striking and hair-pulling are things I'm not interested in.

 It's not about you, fool. It is about the woman and her desire to feel as if she has been conquered.

Slapping a chick seems to me completely silly. I know it's common in pornos, but it just feels like a ridiculous and effeminate sort of thing to do.
I'm not arguing against it really, though. I know all kinds of guys feel like a real man doing it but not me. Both physically striking and hair-pulling are things I'm not interested in.

 It's not about you, fool. It is about the woman and her desire to feel as if she has been conquered.

Yeah no shit.

Yeah but you can do that without ineffectually flailing at the chick.
As far as actually beating crap out of her, I think I'm just culturally averse. Luckily I've never met a chick that wanted by to beat her up.

A gentle tug on her hair once in a blue moon isn't a bad thing. Actually yanking a fistful of hair though? Nah.

Yeah maybe. I can't really articulate what I have against hair-puling. It's just never come up. Maybe I don't mind it after all.

Chicks want to feel like their sexuality has turned you into a lust addled cretin who'll do whatever it takes to get your way with them. I don't think they enjoy the hair pulling simply for the sake of getting their hair pulled, what they like is feeling like you're so insane with lust for them that you've lost all sense of proper decorum... Using a fist full of hair to secure them in a manner that precludes them from escaping from the furious beastly fucking you're administering is what they're looking for, not getting a chunk of hair yanked out of their scalp.

I like the hair pulling and the nipple clamps for the master/servant appeal.

I don't like hitting or choking. Although sometimes when I'm on my knees with his cock deep in my throat, my boyfriend will give me a couple very light, almost gentle slaps on the lower cheek. It's pretty hot.

A bunch of my guy friends think girls aren't good in bed if they aren't crazy and say evil shit in the bedroom.  People are all different I suppose.

I like it better if girls make a little noise rather than just dead silence. I don't need screaming, but give me something.

i want to blow my load and go to sleep

Thurs, while we were watching the Seinfeld XXX I asked her if she liked having her pussy like the chick that was having her pussy slapped hard on screen haha. She said she did, but more gently that that.

Earlier a bit before the muff-munch, when we were just getting warmed up I pulled her nipples pretty hard and she grimaced... don't think she like that. But when we started fucking, I put my hand on her throat and squeezed and I swear she saw heaven itself, the way she was acting/smiling.

Couch sex is hot. We didn't even make it into the bedroom at all that night.

I put my hand on her throat and squeezed and I swear she saw heaven itself, the way she was acting/smiling.

She was seeing stars Kyle, stars.

But when we started fucking, I put my hand on her throat and squeezed and I swear she saw heaven itself, the way she was acting/smiling. Her eyes glassed over, and she's been playing dead ever since, the minx!

Couch sex is hot. We didn't even make it into the bedroom at all that night.

she still grinnin'

A lot of girls like their hair pulled, but you have to get a large-sized handful, and be sure to go for the back of the head closer to the base of the skull. It doesn't really hurt that way.

Fuck that, I'll pull where and when I want and the bitch will like it.