I do remember that, krsna!
I have been the victim of snooping, so therefore I never snoop. Besides, you should trust your mate 100%. No trust means no relationship for me.
HOWEVER. I borrowed the last ex's (RIP relationship Nov 2007-Sept 2008) phone to call my mother but decided to text her instead (rather than get into a LONG conversation) He had the env1 and the damn buttons were all cracked so i just mashed buttons to text her and up came his sent messages. On Verizon phones you can read the first line of all of your texts as a breakdown in the text menu (if that makes any sense). While trying to get to a blank text I saw: "Why can't we be together?"
I had long suspected he was in love with his best friend, so I figured I'll be damned if I'm gonna get lied to and read on. The texts confirmed everything.
I made note of the date and let it be.
I gave him an opportunity to come clean to me, but he didn't. And yet, he flipped on me when I made a new male friend and accused me of cheating. I stood in front of him in my palor and asked him if he really liked being a hypocrite then asked him to explain the texts.
He denied and denied. Then cried.
I think you'll all feel a bit of pride when I tell you the next part
As he wept and cried I stood across from him, violin under my arm and said:
*sigh* "Are you done yet?"