Rock on, yo.

Take the will to live and run with it, no matter what form it comes in. Just remember that she will shit on you someday. It's what they do.

The best way to get over one girl is to assbang another ...

This was an odd encounter. She was a friend of my ex-fiancee. They were more once seperated acquaintances, with unfulfilled sexual interest in one another (a certain amount of playful undertone marked their conversations). I've known her longer a little longer than I've known my ex, but they've known each other alot longer than they've known me and it was a surprise to all of us (small town).
Anyway...
There was no direct intention of sex when we decided to hang out. At least not on my part. We even discussed the pros and cons, in bed, before. I explained that I was very much in love with the ex still, but assured her that it wasn't emotional transference or a rebound situation. Nor did I view it as a one night stand or a piece of ass, which was honestly true. I think that was an important point. I kept my engagement ring on, which I still wear, plus other jewelry that has direct sentimental value that she asked about and I was honest about. Very interesting encounter indeed... its very unfortunate that I actually really like this girl, and barring the timing, it would be a good thing, and quite possibly a healthy relationship between us. But like I told her, I'm so far from a healthy relationship right now, that there was no foreseeable future even implied. It was probably the most non-intimate sex I've had in a long time, and that's unfortunate in it's own way. I hope the friendship can continue to develop with or without sex. My life is strange, and I tend to be overly analytical.

OK Wait... You had sex with your former fiancee's good friend while wearing your engagement ring?

What a slut...

Yes. Yes I did. That's kind of funny.

Dirty, dirty slut. Nicely played, dirty slut.

its very unfortunate that I actually really like this girl, and barring the timing, it would be a good thing, and quite possibly a healthy relationship between us. But like I told her, I'm so far from a healthy relationship right now, that there was no foreseeable future even implied.

I dunno man. They say the best revenge is living well, and I like to think that includes immediately hooking up with the girl your ex wanted to fuck. The next logical step of awesomeness is having an even better realtionship with her. Probably lose the bling though.

I'd agree, provided this chick won't still go and sleep with your ex, because that would be fucked up. Unless you three are into polyamorous relationships.

I see no downside(s) here at all!

\/\/3|2|)

And hey, if A) Your ex and this girl had a flirtatious relationship, and B) You still wear that ring because you want to keep your ex's ghost around with you, and C) You wore your engagement ring while doing this girl, Then you just had a threesome! A bisexual threesome if you fingerbanged this girl with the ring finger/ex's ghost.

Take that fucking ring off. You don't have to throw it away, but you aren't getting married to the woman who left you, so you got no business wearing an engagement ring.

word up, sister friend.

... and take off that beret...

...and don't drunk PM me at 3:30am demanding that I entertain you when I'm probably just as wrecked and then get bitchy when I don't respond...

... and fetch me a beer!

I texted my ex a 'happy birthday, love you, if you ever need anything let me know'. I got back a 'I'm dating somebody, that's disrespectful, don't contact me.' (Paraphrase). Two weeks after the almost wedding. Fuck. Crazy.

Good thing you didn't marry that one

...and don't drunk PM me at 3:30am demanding that I entertain you when I'm probably just as wrecked and then get bitchy when I don't respond...

sorry i was such a drunk bitch last night.

Looks like you got lucky - current burst of crazy saved you the long pain of dealing with years of crazy.

I just read the rest of this thread, there is colossal upside to not having married that person. Your life would have sucked ass. Count yourself lucky, move to the coast and have fun learning to surf or something.

I texted my ex a 'happy birthday, love you, if you ever need anything let me know'. I got back a 'I'm dating somebody, that's disrespectful, don't contact me.' (Paraphrase). Two weeks after the almost wedding. Fuck. Crazy.

I wonder if, perhaps, you were more into this relationship than she was.

Anti-Nowhere League - Woman - 1981 45rpm

...and don't drunk PM me at 3:30am demanding that I entertain you when I'm probably just as wrecked and then get bitchy when I don't respond...

sorry i was such a drunk bitch last night.

You're forgiven Kates. If not you it would have been one of the minions of drunk bitches I talk to everyday...

Looks like you got lucky - current burst of crazy saved you the long pain of dealing with years of crazy.

YES!

Can we PLEASE rewind for my benefit.......

Men can wear engagement rings?  Are you serious?  That is just gay.  I'm sorry but it's so gay.

Wow I didn't even catch that. I've never seen a man wear an engagement ring except in instances where his boyfriend liked it so much he put a ring on it.

The only time I've seen guys wear an engagement ring is when they just have a simple band or something and then use it for their wedding ring. Like they get used to wearing it kinda thing.