If that means that I aim to please her first, you're right.
Just took this hokey test at OKCupid.com for a gauge. Seems about right. I like to take control part of the time and tell her what to do, but I also like to lay back and do what she wants to do too. I like the give and take.
Your result for The Are you Dominant or submissive Test ...
The Assertive Sub
You scored ###
You are assertive, yet still maintain some level of submission. You stand your ground firmly most of the time, and are fairly level. You may not identify with being submissive or dominant, and it's possible that you're a switch (someone who alternates between the two depending on circumstances and/or mood).