Other People's Relationships, that is.

I've been thinking about this recently cuz there's been a lot of the usual summer debauchery going on around here. Lots of people back for the summer and fucking each other/everyone in sight, etc. But this year in particular it seems like it's open season on supposedly committed people. Several people I know have fucked Other People's Men or Women, including one chick I know who's practically made it into a sport.

Now I don't normally give much of a shit about this kinda thing, once it doesn't involve me. And thankfully Amy and I have a relationship where neither of us has to worry about the other cheating. But seeing all these sluts fucking people who ought not to be fucking around is beginning to piss me off a little.

Don't get me wrong, I still place the vast majority of the blame on the people who are in the relationships, cuz nobody's forcing them to cheat. I'm also not some sanctimonious asshole who claims to be above cheating. I've cheated before, although never on Amy, but at the end of a bad relationship a couple of times I've had things fall into my lap and not said no. But it seems to me that there's a difference, albeit a slight one, between cheating sort of by accident, and actively going looking for it.

And I reckon there's also a difference from the other perspective - being a single person fucking someone who's spoken for is one thing if it happens sort of randomly (been there too), but having absolutely no regard for anyone's relationship is another. Particularly if one knows both people in the relationship! I have no idea how people get around the guilt they ought to feel when they then see the couple out at a bar or whatever. I guess some people just don't feel guilty?

Thoughts?

Can I buy you a drink?

But seriously, I see that here too. It seems to be a summer sport and it's pretty messed up. I just hope everyone is wrapping up.

Pics ?

I have no serious thoughts right now..its too cold. hm, okay that was a serious thought. nm.

My thoughts? I'd like to fuck my cousins' GF.  Firebush!

If you are looking for "stray" or "strange" WITHOUT your S/O, you're missing something in your sexual dynamic and need to figure out what it is and either:
1) tell her and hope she'll do it
or
2) live without it and resent her (and yourself) later for not fulfilling what you truly crave and want in a lover after years of not getting what you want/need pass
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I got a semi from reading that. God I want to be in Antigua right now and I love my wife

This is exactly why I am not going to get married until I am 35.  I'm no good for anyone right now.  At least I can honestly say that I have never fucked anyone elses boyfriend/husband, I was raped though by my friend's husband when I was passed out drunk on their bathroom floor.... but I don't count that.  I hope that all those people are using condom's.  In the last few years I have gotten very obsessive about using a condom.

After seeing your sleeping photo, I can't really blame the dude.  It's not rape if you don't remember it.

This is exactly why I am not going to get married until I am 35.

That's right. Enjoy your life while you're young and hot and sexually responsive. Wait until you're old and jaded before you ruin some guy's life. Excellent plan.

It's what I'm doing ...

Marriage is such sweet sorrow.

I dont give a fuck about this sort of thing as long as I aint doing it.

But if I swung thru and railed your ol' lady once a week you would?

If you are looking for "stray" or "strange" WITHOUT your S/O, you're missing something in your sexual dynamic and need to figure out what it is and either:
1) tell her and hope she'll do it
or
2) live without it and resent her (and yourself) later for not fulfilling what you truly crave and want in a lover after years of not getting what you want/need pass
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Sometimes Dave says shit that really, REALLY actually makes sense. Good job Dave.

Why, thank you, dear!

Wanna smash?

EWWW! You'd touch something that's been in Luke's ass?

Then again you have shaken Mosh's hand...

It's fairly difficult to "accidentally" catch strange.

Wanna bet?

But if I swung thru and railed your ol' lady once a week you would?

No, not really. She'd just stop being my ol' lady.

Tru'dat ....

I mean, it's only been, like, what, 10 years now?

God I want to be in Antigua right now

Yeah, this is definitely a fun time to be here. Late summer, xmas, and Sailing Week are the most fun times of the year.

What is this sailing week of which you speak?

http://www.sailingweek.com/v2/index.php

Hmmm... end of April... I'm working with 25' and under. When I work up to a 40 footer I'll be down for the season and would love to do that. But non of those faggy French boats. I want American or British speed.

With a 40 footer you could probably make some good money around here for a season, actually.

40 ft.... from the floor.

With a 40 footer you could probably make some good money around here for a season, actually.

Yeah I'd want a center cockpit. Myself and a crewmember can use the aft with it's own head and a mini galley and charter the forward. I hear one weekend of sailing can pay for food and fuel for an entire month.

 You should start a business called "Zoom Zooms Booze Cruise."  Have mimosas and stuff on board a sail boat, charge $50 a head, and teach people how to sail while pouring them cheap shitty champagne.

40 ft.... from the floor.

40 feet remain?

Yeah I'd want a center cockpit. Myself and a crewmember can use the aft with it's own head and a mini galley and charter the forward. I hear one weekend of sailing can pay for food and fuel for an entire month.

I don't doubt it. I have a few friends in the industry, and supposedly between here and Sint Maarten there's a lot of business still around, even now in the summer, surprisingly.

Are eyepatches and peglegs issued as standard equipment?

Tru'dat ....

I mean, it's only been, like, what, 10 years now?

'bout 11.