Honey, don't drag the gay twilight people into this thread, the big people are talking...

Damn fatties.

Not only that, she has no ex's to speak of nor relate to this thread ...
(Nothing personal, dear, I assure you; please don't take that as an attack in any way)

Why does that matter? I'm not going to be jealous of my own exs. My last bf though did ask me to stop talking to certain guys one on one...

please communicate with others via proxy

You can either deal with her past, or you can't.

The decision to fuck one of those dudes is one you can't control.

So put it out of your mind, or be prepared for the long slow descent.

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She was invited to a "No pants party" next Friday, and is debating whether or not to go.

I think this is probably going to be thing that ends us eventually, unless we find some understanding. We're nearly 10 years apart, and so we're at different places in our lives. Most of her friends are around her age, and thus are going to college parties, fucking dudes, living up the single life, while she, has bucked that trend and has a real boyfriend. I feel like I may be holding her back from going through experiences that everybody should go through in their early 20s. On the other hand, I know what goes on at college parties. Drinking and hooking up, that's the way it goes.

A "no pants party" screams "There's no need to try and GET into my pants, they're already off!" Bunch of drunk chicks, and drunk dudes in undies, dancing close and getting hot and sweaty, leads down a pretty narrow path. Her best friend (who is single) invited her to go. She just told me about the party, and we discussed some. She is young and should be partying. I am old and on a very rare occasion go to a party. I'd go to the party if I was invited. If not, meh. I'll probably be a little jealous.

But anyway, it's time for some serious discussions this weekend on where this relationship is going, our feelings, etc. I know that we both love each other very much, it's just the age difference that may kill this relationship.

Girl needs to pull her head in a little too it seems, there are times when it's ok to say you don't want her to do something, a no pants party being one of them. She may even appreciate your protectiveness.

Put it this way, she would probably not be up for you and your buddies going to the strip club to kill time while she's at her party, right?

I'd hit it!

(her, not you, Kyle)

Yeah, a no pants party seems to  be stretching it, pun intended. Put your little pseudo Jew lawyer foot down, dude.

If you tell her you don't want her to go, and she gets upset about it, what's the worst that could happen?
If she goes and fucks several guys in a massive train, and you find out about it, what's the worst that could happen?

he'll have several gigs of unedited footage of her getting off, and vengence on his mind...

No pants party? Yeah, talk to her about that. If she tells you she feels she should go and its OK then I would definitely ask her if she's cool with you going to a fully nude bar, getting drunk and wasting rent on lap dances, in your boxers.

Watch her buck like a mad bull then! Yee haw!

If she seriously wants to pretend that she thinks going to a party like that is OK, then she thinks you're an idiot so you should dump her.
If she seriously thinks going to a party like that is OK, then she's an idiot so you should dump her.
If you ask her not to go to that shit and she's cool with it, then you're all set. For now.

Baggie,

You could go the Danzig route, blow her ex, and then have him be calling you to hang out instead.

why don't you go to the pantsless party with her? could be fun.

tricky: pantsless

I've seen Tricky Porky Pig style pants-less.

Kyle:  When I was 21 I had a 29 year old boyfriend.  We ended up living together after four months of dating.  I partied with people older than me, 25+, BUT it didn't exclude me from some serious fucking around.  I would make out with hot goth guys in different neighborhoods in SF so he wouldn't see me.  I would spend the night with chicks, doing things.  I had a relationship with a guy in another band my band was on tour with, (but he was from Sweden so it was ok.)  She is really young.  I would not assume that this is going to last forever, but you never know.

Now that I am older I have realized that Geek is right. You cannot communicate with your ex if you want your current relationship to last.  I almost fucked this one up by still talking to Aasim. 

damn 13chems, just reject his friendship in a very insulting manner - really aim for tears here. When he cries, hand him a paper towel and tell him to wipe his face because he's embarrassing himself. Then grunt with disgust when he cries more. That last part is really important.

...Worked with my most recent (2007-2008) emotionally leeching ex (IE: "Booger"). Hasn't pestered me since!  this as a cure-all for parasitic ex-boyfriends!

Hahaha Booger... I still have pictures of that guy. And he whose name we do not speak. I'll have them blown up into posters to hang at you and Detroit's engagement party. The loser's gallery...

Booger was a travesty, rebound from the big one to avoid obvious feelings and great fodder for laughs now. He's whose name we do not speak was just... painful for both of us so we'll leave him out of the loser gallery. Just put up Booger, Dude from Central Jersey who got some chick pregnant and didn't have the balls to tell me, "Baby", "old man" and leave it at that. Those guys are fun to laugh at.

Speaking of Detroit, we were at a jazz club last night and I swear we saw your french, bass playing twin.

Everyone's life is more interesting than mine right now, including Kyle's. And that makes me want to cry.

I've been working 50-60 hour work weeks, trying to learn Spanish, and going to the gym.  That's pretty much it, outside of occasionally doing something fun on the weekend.

Your life is probably more exciting than that.

that doesn't sound bad.

No es posible!  Su vida es muerte.

Mi gato, no tiene pijamas

Mi estavios de pesca esta en la cocina...

Tibor can't wait to party with baggies pants-less girl, ooooooh yeeeaah

I know I would as well ...

I'm taking my boyfriend to Dallas for his birthday so that we can go to the art museum and Medieval Times.  We wanted to invite Kyle and his girlfriend.  I think kids eat free at The Times.

LOL @ Medieval Times. They have jousting horses in there kicking up dust riddled with horse feces and you eat with your hands.

Hello there, E.Coli!

Pssshh!!!
Whatever ...

Hank Hill, Peter Griffin, and both of their families were there for weeks and had no problems ...