If someone has proven themselves to be "untrustworthy"
how do you deal with it/them?
are they forever a filthy lying douche bag or is there a chance for redemption?
I've never been lied to like that. I know some of my friends have lied to me, I'm sure my parents have and I know that my brother has definitely but it's white lies. I've never had someone tell me something particularly vicious to hurt me. I've never been cheated on and I've never had to stop talking to someone because of lies.
But one of my friends is a terrible fucking liar. She doesn't lie to hurt me, she lies to everyone to make herself seem cooler, more dignified etc. She says stupid shit and she gets called out on it, a lot. I don't like it but I don't do anything about it. White lies, afterall.