What does it take for you all to say "don't contact me ever again"? Is that something you'd ever say to anyone? Or would you be able to forgive people who have repeatedly hurt you/ fucked you over in the past?

Tell me your stories of ex's and ex friends who you permanently kicked out of your life.

Giiirrrrlllll let me tell you sumthin!

You have to ignore them.  No matter how badly you want to tell them off you have to ignore.  It's the only way.

Pain; it's the most effective way of getting your point across ....

Well what about when they repeatedly try to contact you again?

ughhh some people are clueless.

Tell him, "No, you can't come on my clothed leg again!", punch him in the nuts, and move on ...

a strong cold shoulder is the only thing that actually works with a true suckbag.

I generally stay in touch with everyone I know from ex-girlfriends to people I have had major falling outs with. Time has taken the sting out of many of them, but even there are only two people on this planet that I go out of my way to avoid seeing. Avoidance is a good tactic. If you really want to send the message, don't even acknowledge their presence when they are in sight and earshot. If they call your name, just ignore them. If they try to make eye contact, look right through them. It reminds me of an episode of the The Twilight Zone where anyone who had this mark on their forehead COULD NOT be acknowledged by anyone as punishment. It's very effective.

Is this about "place name here" of A-S legacy?

he didn't inspire this thread, but he's one of those people, yes.

I would lure them to their death.

Well, if you make them HAVE to Run Away from YOU,

that's a pretty good way of getting rid of 'em.

Otherwise, see deviance forums for the How Would You Hide The Body thread.


Sorry ~ I'm one of the peeps cool folks like YOU do, occasionally, have to run away from.

Hey!  Try acting like ME!

(I'll make myself available for In Depth "How To Be wEnderful" convos, at your convenience!)

You don't have to hide the body. Just use a generic weapon. Let em sit and spin.

SUV
Contractor bags from Home Depot
Gorilla tape
Shovel
Road trip
What happens in Vegas STAYS in Vegas.

Give Fyre his address

SUV
Contractor bags from Home Depot
Gorilla tape
Shovel
Road trip
What happens in Vegas STAYS in Vegas.

Not according to Grissom ...

Eww CSI.

Straight men watch Law & Order while smoking Havanas and drinking The Macallan. After a day of sailing without sunscreen. Fag.

Straight men watch"Cagney & Lacey" while smoking Havanas and drinking The Macallan. After a day of sailing without sunscreen. Fag.

Fixed

ahhh law & order. how i love thee.

Never watched it ...

Do yourself a favour and skip straight to SVU. It's the best by far. Tuesdays on USA they have all-day marathons.

Criminal Intent with Vincent D'Onofrio. Best.

so no one actually answered my questions. you guys suck.

The amazing thing is that you expect us to stay on topic and give you a useful answer. That rarely happens here.

I was being serious ...

I said ignore the person. 

I mentioned a quick hands off kill.

But seriously, that's not an answer we can provide.

If you don't want to see them again tell them so.

brook-- i'm curious to hear the background behind your story?

you may remember that i told my old roommate (and best friend) to stay away from me for the rest of our days (this was once i got her on the phone right after i walked into my smashed up, bloodied apartment i had shared with her until that point). she had had one of her usual drunken/drug rages that for only the second time had been directed specifically at me. i let it slide the first time she erupted with me as the target, which was a number of years back, but only after taking about a year off from from the friendship (no calls, no talking if we saw eachother in public, basically we acted like the other didn't exist. i didn't make any contact after the incident, and she got the hint). strike one, shame on you. strike two, shame on me, so she was out after the window/property smashing and money owing. i achieved this result again by simply never calling her afterwards, and acting as though she doesn't exist the few times i've seen her out since then.

update: she recently paid my parents the $1200 she owed them. i'm still due about $2,000 from her, but don't ever really expect to see it again. just glad to have gotten her and her poisonous personality out of my life. i do expect to see her next month at my high school reunion. everyone's quite sure she will make a scene. it's open to the public if anyone wants to bring popcorn.