She's 1st gen brit.

Now add all the caste stuff.

She must do better than her parents and the children of her parents friends and the children of her parents families.

She wont be disowned in private, but in public...

And she's playing on your knowledge of western  media's constant visuals of old traditions in Asia.

Ghey ....

Sure, get my hope all up and shit ....

... and you eluded to them dishonoring or some shit

Huh? I said they threatened to disown me and throw me out but would never do it unless i did something srsly bad. Which i wont. My parents do love me yknow.

And they would think I am a whore if i got remarried.

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She's 1st gen brit.

Now add all the caste stuff.

She must do better than her parents and the children of her parents friends and the children of her parents families.

She wont be disowned in private, but in public...

Caste has absolutely nothing to do with this. 

And she's playing on your knowledge of western  media's constant visuals of old traditions in Asia.

If I'm you then youre supposed to be on my side! >.<

Caste has nothing to do with it ?  Bullshit.

You think growing up in a culture of caste does not have effects intra-caste ?

Dreamer.

Just a wishful fool eh?

Yes.

Sure, get my hope all up and shit ....

... and you eluded to them dishonoring or some shit

**blathering on**

And they would think I am a whore if i got remarried.

That's my point ...
That is the single most fucked up logic from a parent EVER!

I'm not even sure it's true; it's kinda hard to believe ...

I dont see how. Its not about marriage. Its about sex. You only have sex with one person ever.

I dont see how. Its not about marriage. Its about sex. You only have sex with one person ever.

What? One person ever? Sexual compatibility is a necessity for a successful marriage and people/place/things do change, as evidenced in mine and many other marriages.

These aren't the days of just fucking to make lots of kids to work the family land holdings. We've moved beyong tribalism... Well, actually, no we haven't.

But still, what is the purpose of sexual purity? Awkward painful sex?

Fucktards.

Are you telling me that you can only ever have awkward painful sex with the person you lose your v to? 

Anyway, i agree sex is important for a good marriage.

Fucktards.

Oh how I've missed you...

^5

Oh, and, Daddy; it means I'll win our wager and have a cold one on you ...

You're gonna fuck a corpse?

Rock on!

Not like it'd be the first time. For him.

Well, technically, it's accurate.

I dont see how. Its not about marriage. Its about sex. You only have sex with one person ever.

Enjoy the SHITTIEST sex life ever; it'll be more epically bad as Daddy's ...

Why?

And how come i get shit for my grammar (which is fine for the record) when you can say "more epically bad as" ? =|

(not that your grammar is bad).   

And not forgetting no one answered my Q.

Are you telling me that you can only ever have awkward painful sex with the person you lose your v to? 

I have had awful awkward sex with a few people.  If a guy cannot get you wet because you are drunk or just not into having sex at that moment it is awful and painful.  There, your question is now answered.  Next question please.

The answer is that you are going to have an epically shitty sex life ...
There is a good side to this; you'll never know it only having the one ...

Oh forget it.  After all that I still didn't get 2 clear answers.

I didn't ask why it happens, I asked why it's the only kind you can ever have with the person you first fuck. And Dave, thanks for the insightful answer.   

Would you buy a car without test driving it first?

No, but then i intend to have sex before marriage. Difference is that since ive had the test run i'll want to buy it.

I'm not having an arranged marriage you know. And half the hurt in being divorced is how hard it'll be to get my parents to accept the guy.

My wife asked me if I wanted our relationship to be over. It is difficult to walk away from someone you spent 14 years with. I answered no. After about twenty minutes of a back ansd forth, we are going to try for a fourth time to repair/restart the intimate part of our lives together. I'm just happy she'll be gone for two weeks as of the 13th. I will be able to miss her for a while. It'll just be me and the boy. Now...what to do?

Your answer is HERE

No, but then i intend to have sex before marriage. Difference is that since ive had the test run i'll want to buy it.

But what if once you've had the test run, you realize you were driving a Reliant Robin?

(Ford Pinto for us Americans)

Your answer is HERE

She made it clear that I will just have to wait on her to come around. Period. Romance didn't work. Being direct didn't work.
Maybe the cholroform will....

It's not rape if she cant say no!

But what if once you've had the test run, you realize you were driving a Reliant Robin?

Umm that car is the most awesome car I've ever seen in my life and if I were given one it would fucking make my year.

Anyway, taking it as bad, I dont know. Stay together for a little while and if he doesnt like it and neither do I then move on? 

Do you masturbate often?  If yes, do you climax; if no, learn to ...
I'm being serious; It's actually one of the KEYS to a good sex life ...
You can't possibly show him what you like if you don't have a clue yourself ...

Oh, and, Zoomie, THIS is what he really needs ...

I masturbate way too often.