Even though I can pay for dinner and going out, and pick up girls up in my car, I like to have them buy me stuff and pick me up. Not all the time mind you, but when "J" and I first met, I got her to buy MY drinks at the show. I want to see some effort - I'm not here to give hand outs. If the girl is responsible enough to be able to pay for her own things, she's proven her worth to me. I am not interested in a dead beat, who wants a dude to take care of her right away. Though after having proving she is responsible, I usually pay for nearly everything else from that point on. I also think it's very important that the girl say "Thank you". My current fling, is super sweet and always thanks me after we go out.

Makes me happy. I also of course never talk money, until months in (or ever).
This past year has changed me in many ways... I used to throw money at women, and always ended up "so close" yet, so so far. Remember the Costa Rica trip? Hah. I have learned a lot over the years and especially since December. About what I want mainly, and how to be a tree with deep roots instead of a strand of grass, easily mowed over or plucked from the earth.
Also, I was talking with girlie today asking her how often she masturbates and she says usually daily. Hot. We need to get that clone-a-pussy made and then masturbate together!